Have you shown your appreciation today?

Sometimes we are so involved with ourselves that we dont even realize what is going on around us. Other times we just take for granted what others do for us. We might say thank you for the big things, but how about the little things?

How wonderful is it to receive a smile from a stranger when we hold the elevator door, or a thank you note from a client, or even a hug from a loved one. Receiving is wonderful, but how about giving?

Just in one day, many people work towards providing for us in one way or another. In addition, there are our loved ones that are our most important relationships. We must nourish them if we want them to grow as we do. We should never assume that people know how grateful we are to have them in our lives (actually, lets try never to assume anything about others, even if it is really difficult).

A sign of appreciation is such a magnificent gesture. However, most of the time we never do it. The funny thing about this, is that it does not take much to show our gratitude. It is just a matter of deciding to do it and how to do it.

Easiest way is just saying it. People in our lives might know how much we appreciate them, but hearing it makes their heart melt. Dont pick a day when they did something for you, but preferably do it on a day where you can just say I am grateful for having you in my life. If we are not ready to say the words, send them a note, not an email, but a handwritten note, this makes it personal.

Another way is to give them a gift. Not an expensive gift, but a thoughtful one. Surprise them with their favorite flowers, favorite dessert, tickets for a show or just anything that will make them feel special.

Other gestures are doing something for them. Fix something for them, babysit, spend some quality time, take them out to dinner. The possibilities are endless. We will never go wrong showing our appreciation, it might be ackward at first, but it will always be fulfilling.

Please dont forget those who usually go unnoticed. In the morning, buy an extra cup of coffee for your secretary, buy a chocolate for your cleaning lady, or just congratulate the traffic man for doing his job. A smile works wonders on everyone. A smile is like shining onto someone!

Challenge of the day: I will show my appreciation just to one person.